How are you supposed to transition from the absolute best sex you’ve ever had to sex that frankly feels kinda mid?

I(23M) had been with my gf for just under a year, and I feel so guilty about this but I still can’t forget the woman I was hooking up with prior to her. She and I were great friends and when we started having sex it was the best sex of my life. Unforgettable. I’ve never met a woman who I had such chemistry with and was as sexually compatible with.

Every single time we were together was amazing, I don’t think we ever had “good sex” but it was all on another level. A level I’ve never even been close to experiencing with another woman. It ended because I had to move for work. A few months later I meet my girlfriend and I hit it off personality wise and we begin dating.

I love my girlfriend I really do. I feel like such a pig for even comparing her to another woman like this, but it’s just so much less. The sex is fine I guess. We work on it and we try to make it more fun for each other but I feel broken.

I hate having such a high bar for good sex now. It’s so unfair of me to hold my girlfriend to the same standard as a probably once in a lifetime partner that I’ll never get again and it’s not her fault that our chemistry isn’t like it was with her. None of this is her fault and she can’t change any of it so there’s no point in telling her.

So what I need to know is how to accept this. How do I move on from the best sex of my life after over a year. How do I make the beautiful connection I have with my girlfriend enough so that I don’t miss the best sex ill ever have.

Submitted September 07, 2023 at 12:37AM by anonymousmis https://ift.tt/u1FXS9R