Meet the husband?

Throwaway, not sure if this is the right subreddit. Here I go: I find myself in an interesting situation. I (38M) matched with a (40F) married woman on a dating app. Her husband allows her to have friends with benefits, but they have to meet his approval. Literally, he will meet her partner for a drink, and if he "approves" it's OK to proceed from there.

I've never encountered a situation like this before and I'm curious what insight r/sex has as to what the husband might consider when he's determining whether someone is acceptable. Any husbands here that are into this sort of thing? He doesn't want to participate or watch, as far as I can tell.

We seem to have a good connection and I'm planning to ask her directly about it, but wanted to hear from others before taking action. Thanks!

Also if there's a better subreddit to ask about this, I'm all ears.

Submitted September 06, 2023 at 10:45PM by AmazingBad4592 https://ift.tt/YDCuMBp